Human Preferences for Constructive Interactions in Language Model Alignment

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Main Authors: Kyrychenko, Yara, Roozenbeek, Jon, Davidson, Brandon, van der Linden, Sander, Debnath, Ramit
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author Kyrychenko, Yara
Roozenbeek, Jon
Davidson, Brandon
van der Linden, Sander
Debnath, Ramit
author_facet Kyrychenko, Yara
Roozenbeek, Jon
Davidson, Brandon
van der Linden, Sander
Debnath, Ramit
contents As large language models (LLMs) enter the mainstream, aligning them to foster constructive dialogue rather than exacerbate societal divisions is critical. Using an individualized and multicultural alignment dataset of over 7,500 conversations of individuals from 74 countries engaging with 21 LLMs, we examined how linguistic attributes linked to constructive interactions are reflected in human preference data used for training AI. We found that users consistently preferred well-reasoned and nuanced responses while rejecting those high in personal storytelling. However, users who believed that AI should reflect their values tended to place less preference on reasoning in LLM responses and more on curiosity. Encouragingly, we observed that users could set the tone for how constructive their conversation would be, as LLMs mirrored linguistic attributes, including toxicity, in user queries.
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spellingShingle Human Preferences for Constructive Interactions in Language Model Alignment
Kyrychenko, Yara
Roozenbeek, Jon
Davidson, Brandon
van der Linden, Sander
Debnath, Ramit
Human-Computer Interaction
Artificial Intelligence
Computation and Language
Computers and Society
As large language models (LLMs) enter the mainstream, aligning them to foster constructive dialogue rather than exacerbate societal divisions is critical. Using an individualized and multicultural alignment dataset of over 7,500 conversations of individuals from 74 countries engaging with 21 LLMs, we examined how linguistic attributes linked to constructive interactions are reflected in human preference data used for training AI. We found that users consistently preferred well-reasoned and nuanced responses while rejecting those high in personal storytelling. However, users who believed that AI should reflect their values tended to place less preference on reasoning in LLM responses and more on curiosity. Encouragingly, we observed that users could set the tone for how constructive their conversation would be, as LLMs mirrored linguistic attributes, including toxicity, in user queries.
title Human Preferences for Constructive Interactions in Language Model Alignment
topic Human-Computer Interaction
Artificial Intelligence
Computation and Language
Computers and Society
url https://arxiv.org/abs/2503.16480