TactfulToM: Do LLMs Have the Theory of Mind Ability to Understand White Lies?

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Autori principali: Liu, Yiwei, Pretty, Emma Jane, Huang, Jiahao, Sugawara, Saku
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Pubblicazione: 2025
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author Liu, Yiwei
Pretty, Emma Jane
Huang, Jiahao
Sugawara, Saku
author_facet Liu, Yiwei
Pretty, Emma Jane
Huang, Jiahao
Sugawara, Saku
contents While recent studies explore Large Language Models' (LLMs) performance on Theory of Mind (ToM) reasoning tasks, research on ToM abilities that require more nuanced social context is limited, such as white lies. We introduce TactfulToM, a novel English benchmark designed to evaluate LLMs' ability to understand white lies within real-life conversations and reason about prosocial motivations behind them, particularly when they are used to spare others' feelings and maintain social harmony. Our benchmark is generated through a multi-stage human-in-the-loop pipeline where LLMs expand manually designed seed stories into conversations to maintain the information asymmetry between participants necessary for authentic white lies. We show that TactfulToM is challenging for state-of-the-art models, which perform substantially below humans, revealing shortcomings in their ability to fully comprehend the ToM reasoning that enables true understanding of white lies.
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spellingShingle TactfulToM: Do LLMs Have the Theory of Mind Ability to Understand White Lies?
Liu, Yiwei
Pretty, Emma Jane
Huang, Jiahao
Sugawara, Saku
Computation and Language
Artificial Intelligence
While recent studies explore Large Language Models' (LLMs) performance on Theory of Mind (ToM) reasoning tasks, research on ToM abilities that require more nuanced social context is limited, such as white lies. We introduce TactfulToM, a novel English benchmark designed to evaluate LLMs' ability to understand white lies within real-life conversations and reason about prosocial motivations behind them, particularly when they are used to spare others' feelings and maintain social harmony. Our benchmark is generated through a multi-stage human-in-the-loop pipeline where LLMs expand manually designed seed stories into conversations to maintain the information asymmetry between participants necessary for authentic white lies. We show that TactfulToM is challenging for state-of-the-art models, which perform substantially below humans, revealing shortcomings in their ability to fully comprehend the ToM reasoning that enables true understanding of white lies.
title TactfulToM: Do LLMs Have the Theory of Mind Ability to Understand White Lies?
topic Computation and Language
Artificial Intelligence
url https://arxiv.org/abs/2509.17054